Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Divorce too many.

My older son asked me something the other day about all the news about the high divorce rate. I told him there are not many divorces there are too many marriages. Most people really get married, not knowing who they are married or simply as a great affection they do hake, most people enter into marriage before they even know themselves very well, if. reality all the hits, they're stuck in a bad marriage for life, or they get divorced. Education response.



Know yourself well before you commit yourself to a marriage with another. Are you ready, really? You'll be playing or not. You still have wild oats to sow? Your career or higher education, to get in the way to be able to accurately build a life with someone or not. What are your beliefs about what marriage is. You have high or low maintenance person. Are you ready kids? You do not want children? How do you plan to add as you fire the parents or one that pushes these children independent? Tough love or caring? What kind of life you are in financial need or not. You will have success before you have children or you have to wait and have children later, if you set things just so? How much closeness you want to? How to meet your needs as other people or not. You work in a team or on your own little give? There are no right or wrong answers, just as you open your eyes for the sake of your future husband you should be able to tell them straight out that you are offering. They do not "offer" to look like you or not.

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